When Bea Guffey's daughter called Saturday night, she thought the girl had been in a wreck.
"I could hear screaming and crying," she said. "My husband kept saying, 'Baby girl, calm down,' over and over."
By Karel Holloway
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When Bea Guffey's daughter called Saturday night, she thought the girl had been in a wreck.
"I could hear screaming and crying," she said. "My husband kept saying, 'Baby girl, calm down,' over and over."
By Karel Holloway
"The students had been told all week long during the announcements there would be a dress code," Halperin said. "The whole point of this is it should have not been a surprise to any young lady that her dress would be reviewed before entering the dance."
They didn't get kicked out of the dance because the dresses were too short, they were kicked out because they were horrible dresses they bought on discount racks.
I think it's cool they're enforcing a dress code and demanding some modesty but it was pure stupidity on their part not to set clear guidelines well in advance. They ended up making a mess of it from the sound of it.
The photo of the silver dress....as short as it is and being free-flowing you can bet she was showing off her "assets" all night in that thing. I wonder how many times she was asked to pick something up for people?
Have you seen some of the prom dress catalogs? I've seen more conservative stuff in Frederick's catalogs!
Hiya Justme, This happens every year. I went to Mesquite High School and their dress code has always been conservative for boys and girls alike. For instance, boys can't have their hair below the collar on their shirts. It sounds to me like these girls knew the rules but just wanted to get away with breaking them. Even the one girl admitted that her mother thought her dress was too low.
I am in favor of school uniforms.. not only will it save money in the long run for the parents.. it would bring commonality and minds focused on school work.
This kid in one of my classes in school.. use to drop his pen on the floor .. just for the excuse. He would say to a friend of his sitting near him... "Watch this".. and they would giggle like little school girls .. and this was high school.. and he would disrupt the class.. The teacher would ask what is so funny? .. and they would make up a quick excuse.. like a - burp or "pass gas"..
But you can't wear a uniform to a school dance...that is just strange. I do agree with dress codes for children because obviously they can not dress themselves without supervision.
IF these kids had parents with a mind to interpret the rules .. then maybe the kids might not of been in that situation?
My personal preference is to not have uniforms (mesquite requires them during school, fyi). I'm not sure it really saves money in the long run, depending on the parents. The kids will still want their "cool" clothes that they can wear when not at school.
I think having a uniform really cuts the "who is wearing what" conversations in the classroom. It isn't just the girls either...boys love their sneakers! But yes, I would say that if the parents went to the mall with their lovely daughters and were aware of the dress code they would have avoided the embarrassment of being kicked out from the dance.
"The students had been told all week long during the announcements there would be a dress code," Halperin said. "The whole point of this is it should have not been a surprise to any young lady that her dress would be reviewed before entering the dance."
This right here tells me, the young lady KNEW they were going to check, and just thought she'd by pass it, and she got caught. IMO, she seems like she just didn't like getting caught.
geez, admin imposing their culture on someone else's cultural event...
haven't they seen Footloose?
"It was fingertip length," insisted Ebony, a 15-year-old sophomore. She held her hands to her sides, demonstrating the length of the purple dress she had worn Saturday night. "It wasn't too short."
But her mom had told her the dress was too short. So she didn't tell her mom she was turned away.
This to me shows that they were aware of the dress code and chose to ignore it. The mother should have put her foot down on this and told her daughter no.
This girl suffers from that disease I like to call the teenage years. That is they are under the condition were they believe that they are the first to go through something and all adults are idiots. Show me one girl who's been through a public high school with a dress code requiring fingertip length attire that cant fudge that length a little. Now playing devils advocate when I was going through school the girls would have their dresses picked out way longer than a week prior to the event. So that may have been an issue, not a justifiable one but still an issue
I think it is awesome. Next time cancel the damn event. Kids these days think they are born with some kind of bill of rights. Horse.... !!!! They are out of control and the parents are for the most part useless cowards or absentee. Hooray for the ISD. I have had enough of the kids gone wild. Allowing your daughter to dress like this weeks corner meat or your son to dress like he's some drug dealing thug. It not only looks bad it sets a dangerous precedent and sends all the wrong messages. Trust me the local criminal element doesn't have your liberal sensibilities mom&dad.
With three girls growing up, we had our share of "but everybody is wearing them like this" My answer to it, as middle daughter was going out the door was to grab the back of it, and pulled straight down. I told her "now it's a rag" No more discussions about mom and dad's dress code. Yes, she was shocked, made, and all the things a 16 year old goes through. Of course didn't speak to me till the next day, and we talked about it.
Uniforms for everyone, I agree.
When I went to my senior prom in 1973 we had a dress code. Back then there was a fashion trend toward "hotpants" which were very very short, tight shorts worn by woman. For the prom, there were dresses made with splits up the front with hotpants underneath. Looked sorta like a hooker uniform or something one would wear while on the pole. In any case, everyone was told not to wear them but people did anyway and got away with it. So what can you do. Kids need to express themselves. The two dresses I saw in the photos in the article were actually conservative considering some of the stuff I have seen. But a dress code is a dress code I guess.
My answer to it, as middle daughter was going out the door was to grab the back of it, and pulled straight down. I told her "now it's a rag"
By the time you told her "now it's a rag" you and your husband had already failed your parenting skills!
Uniforms for everyone, I agree.
Uniforms for everyone, just passes the responsibility of setting your parenting stanfarda to strangers
Uniformity is the technique of moving people on a straight course of accomplishment.
Without uniformity great armies would fail. Although this is not a complex matter, it is a matter of will to go along, to get along.
But in a society where it's "all about me", getting along is pretty low on the priority list.
Tired, you are absolutely right.. it is a "all about me" world today.. what's in it for me?
It has been since the 80's.. the motto is: Do unto others, and then run..
Uniformty is akin to dictatorial control that robs people of individuality. Great armies, volanteer or conscription, police or fire departments are extraodinary and they each have a chain of comand need to be identity sensitive.. Civilian populations in free societies, free democracies, unless voluntary, should not be restricted to be uniform.
It should be the exclusive responsibility of parents to teach their children life etiquette.
they each have a chain of comand need to be identity sensitive..
There is a chain of command in almost everything one belongs to.. in this case a school system with the #1. School Committee at the top, #2. Superintendent, #3. Principles, and so on down the line...
Employers enforce dress code policies as well. As Tired pointed out it is needed to make up for the folks who have a hard time figuring out what is appropriate attire at work. Dress codes are a part of life. If a person can not find a way to conform with a dress code and still themselves that is a problem they themselves need to work on. It really isn't difficult to be individualistic while conforming to dress codes unless maybe you're in the military. They're a bit more strict than most though.
Finally some girls getting the short end of the dresscode stick
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